Elizabeth Phangela and her late brother Christopher Makhoba
Christopher Makhoba was Elizabeth’s younger brother. This photograph of him was taken the last time she saw him.
‘He smiled at me that day,’ she remembers. ‘I had taken Russians and chips, which we ate together. He was handsome and he had his new clothes on and I even sang to him because I was so happy. I just wanted to show him the way I felt at that time.’
Thirteen years earlier, Christopher had been hit by a car and was never the same again. The family found him in hospital. ‘He would disappear, and we would have to go look for him. He started to have seizures and he had to be on medication.’
Christopher needed special care and was moved to Life Esidimeni facility in Waverley, where he had been well cared for, for nine years. Elizabeth last saw her brother Christopher on 16 May 2016 at Life Esidimeni. He was then moved to Precious Angels without the family knowing.
On 15 July 2016, Elizabeth was at her mother’s place. They were sitting on the bed when they received a call from Ethel Ncube, the head of Precious Angels. She told them that Christopher had died. Then came a second call from Ethel asking them if she could go ahead and bury his body.
The family was shocked. Later they discovered that Christopher had actually died on 3 July. When the family eventually located him at the mortuary, his body was lying on the floor.
‘Christopher’s death has been so painful because we really don’t know how he died,’ says Elizabeth.
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